Hi Mum,
Life here has been very busy in the last 3 days.
Sunday Dad and Mike were working really hard on the garden, it looks so different, I wish you could see it, you would be soooo pleased and excited.
To get the girls out of the way, I took them for a walk in the woods with Mandy, Steph, Bea, Poppy, Benjamin, Fiona, Alice and their puppy Luna. It was lovely and we were walking for 2 and a half hours. The girls did so well.
In the evening we took girls to the beach to do their own goodbye to you. They spent about an hour throwing stones into the sea and we were trying to wait for the stars to appear but at 21:10 you still weren’t out so we brought the girls home. They each did a little recording for you which we’re going to keep.
Chloe misses you so much Mum, she doesn’t talk about you all the time but every so often she mentions you. She heard a song the other day that reminded her of you and driving to the beach she was talking about different memories she has of you.
On Monday the girls were so tired we didn’t even bother to get them dressed, they slept for 3 hours during the day!
I painted the fence in the rain and Mike and Ed did some digging ๐
It all felt very strange without you here. Dad helping but not having you with me and the girls.
Mike was on the phone and he said it’s Mum. My instant response was ‘my Mum?’. How crazy is that? Of course it wasn’t going to be you! My sub-conscious seems to be a bit behind! It just doesn’t seem real that you are gone.
I also got upset at the fact that I have to live without a Mum now. Why us? Why me? There are others who don’t care for or see their Mums. Why did I have to lose my best friend!
I know your response would be ‘because I raised you to be strong enough to do it.’ I know that’s the case Mum but it’s just so hard and hits me when I’m not expecting it.
I went back to work today. I did ok for the morning, it was quite hard but I tried to just do one thing at a time.
For some reason in the afternoon it all got too much, felt like everything was terrible and I just wanted out. I pulled myself together, got myself a coffee and went back. My boss’ response was to just do fun stuff for now and not worry about stuff that I struggle with. Bless him.
I just expect life to return to some form of normality but it doesn’t seem to be yet.
Miss and love you Mum
Love
Me xxx